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MEET DEVON

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With the inundation of superficial programs to get your ex back and the abundance of traditional approaches that don’t really work, we are here to offer non-traditional, heart-based approaches that actually get people through their painful breakups and prepared for Authentic, Romantic Partnership. 

Hi there, I’m Devon Loomis.  

A breakup expert and founder of TheRelationshipCoach.com.  I’m the guy everyone turns to when nothing else seems to work.  

And I was once where you are now… 

You see, nearly a decade ago, I went through a soul-crushing, intense breakup – one that shook me to my core, and changed everything I thought I knew about myself, love and life.

 At the time I was a relationship coach with a thriving business and had been doing inner-work for almost 20 years, so you’d think I’d have the tools to get through it, right? 

Unfortunately, I did not… I was desperate for relief from the immense pain I felt everyday, so I went to my colleagues, talked to my friends, sought out counseling, did hypnotherapy.. I tried EVERYTHING with no real results. It got so bad that one day I found myself buckled over in the shower in a state of panic, holding my chest and feeling like my physical heart was being ripped right out of me. I even had to close the doors on my coaching business because I couldn’t authentically show up for my clients. Not only was the breakup affecting my emotional state, it was affecting my entire life. I could hardly function. And then the shift happened. I decided that I needed to go down a rabbit hole and figure this thing out on my own, because no one seemed to have the answers – and I NEEDED relief. Heck, I would have settled for just feeling okay again. So I took pieces from traditional and non-traditional approaches (especially hypnotherapy) and began weaving them together until I began to experience real relief. And I got through it… FULLY through it. Closure. Peace. Freedom.  I came to realize that I was forced to experience such deep confusion and suffering so that I could come back into the world and help other lost, broken-hearted people move through their breakups with what I had learned. It’s been about 10 years since that soul-crushing breakup that led me to the deep, authentic romantic partnership I’m now in and I’ve helped literally hundreds of other people do the same. I am a super-fan of romantic partnerships. A student of love. A conscious romance facilitator.

Thanks for visiting my site! -Devon

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Devon
Hey Hedwig!
Sean
Hi Everyone
Hedwig
Hi Devon and family
Sean
Erhart audio books on repeat
Tina
what if youre the negative person spewing c**p in your own head
Tina
come on Devon.. when do I ever censor myself. it was the chat!
Tina
so I started cutting people out that were nothing but negative.. and I have no one.. what do I do now? I cut everyone out – I guess i had really s****y "friends"
Ashley
Energy to resist that which doesn’t serve me – my therapist literally said this to me
Ashley
today
Ashley
Today
Ashley
Today !
Hedwig
How do you learn to be more patient
Tina
Hedwig – youre one of the most patient people i know!
Hedwig
Yes coworker. .
Ashley
Pay your grocery bill and move lol
Tina
ugh…. the level of stupidity out there is unreal
Tammy
But sometimes acceptance can hold you back also from moving forward right?
Tina
how do you stop at acceptance and not let it turn into resignation
Hedwig
Some days i can accept it's how it is . But there are other days I don't know. 😆
Sean
Been about a week since I made the decision. It's been rough!
Devon
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