Meet The Relationship Coach
So, I’m a poor writer. I’ve been told I need to take writing classes. However, since you clicked on this page, I’m assuming you want to get a feel for the raw, authentic me. Because of that, I am writing this unfiltered and without an editor to help me refine. Please forgive any errors.
I have always processed romantic relationships differently from those around me.
From a very young age I have been tuned into a deeper, more authentic level of connection than what I saw being experienced in my environment and in the media.
Being a very empathic person, life was extremely difficult for me – ESPECIALLY in the area of romantic love.
I couldn’t relate to the superficial level people were interacting from and I felt like an alien in my social circles.
At age twenty-five, I COMPLETELY dedicated my life to figuring out this thing we call romantic love and finding the type of love/partnership that I felt existed. It became the central focal point of my life.
A connection where we could both FULLY see one another. A relationship with solid dependability, support, integrity and transparency. A love that would accept every dark, hidden recess of our being. A partnership where we would sit in the discomfort and work through issues that would inevitably arise. A love that was aligned on all levels.
After countless life/love lessons, INTENSE HEARTBREAK, disciplined study, immense self-work and mentorship with everything from therapists to shamans, and over a decade of dedication to my dream, I finally found the love I was looking for.
(There’s a deep, beautiful love story that goes along with finding this love of mine. The book is written and waiting for the right day to be published.)
During my looooonnng journey, I began attracting people who would seek my advice and insight into their own romantic life challenges. It’s as if through my own process, they sensed that I understood their dilemma and could hold space for them to simply express and be fully heard without judgment.
I began to meet with friends, acquaintances, and total strangers for an hour at a time when they would reach out for help. I wasn’t charging because, well, I had no degree and no official training. However, people began to request that I take money for my services.
I still refused because I didn’t feel right about taking money for something that I wasn’t “trained” in.
After a few years of working with others, people who were professionals in the healing arts field began to reach out to me for help. It was during this phase that I felt called to explore working with romantic relationships as a profession.
Up to that point, I had been a business owner and stock market trader but that wasn’t my deeper calling.
I decided to put myself out there as a Relationship Coach – even though I had kind of a distaste for the title because of how much superficial stuff I saw being promoted with “coaches”.
The titles of Conscious Romance Facilitator or Intimacy Expert seemed like they would require more of an explanation than a Relationship Coach – so that’s what I became.
I knew from experience that 90% of the people who would contact me were dealing with a breakup. Because of that, I focused all of my attention on becoming a specialist in effectively helping people through a breakup or getting over an ex – which I myself had been forced to become an expert at.
Seeing the growing demand and noticing that multiple coaching sessions were not enough to truly help, I created an online program with a support group – coupled with live weekly coaching called Beyond The Breakup – and that’s what I spend most of my time working on right now.
Breakups are usually an entry point for people to get to know me, see if we are a fit and then begin to go deeper into self-exploration.
I am a super-fan of romantic partnerships. A student of love. A conscious romance facilitator.
Thanks for visiting my site!
All services provided by Devon Loomis and TheRelationshipCoach.com are for educational and personal growth only and should not be used in substitute for mental health services.
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